
Last night some good friends of ours invited Derek and I to join them to go see a few of the homes featured in Eugene's parade of homes. Now, many of you know my husband. Can I just say that a miny miracle occured when I asked him if we could go, (well begged...well more like told him he was going) and he actually agreed to go. That may only be because my birthday was on Wednesday, so I still have a little bit of birthday girl pull.
I love love love to look at all the fancy homes and dream of one day having a house with even one room that looks slightly as amazing as their entire home. Anyways, we go see all these great homes, and I leave having a conversation with my husband of our future dream masterbedroom with the ginormous king size bed and bathroom with the double sinks, double shower heads, and what the heck why not double walk in closets too (that may be a little extreme).
The night continues...we go get icecream with our friends (who happen to be doing the law school thing too). We start talking about future jobs, where we want to end up, and what kinds of firms they are applying to for next year. Her husband says that he really wants to work at a small firm, in a smaller town because he doesn't want to have a job where he has to work from 7:30 Am- 7:30 PM every day like the big firms make you do right out of school.
Well, that of course gets me thinking because I don't really want a husband who is gone that long every day either. And, I remember when we started law school that Derek said he didn't want to work for a big firm because he didn't want to work those long hours. Well, here we are in our third year. He is currently applying for law firms to work at next year. Are they the small firms with the reasonable hours? NO! They are all these huge firms with tons of billable hours. Whether he can actually get a job at these firms is another issue, but nonetheless he is applying.
This led to a long dicussion last night. It ended with me saying something like. So, I guess you pretty much plan to live at the law firm. Well, remember that dream masterbedroom? Forget the double sinks, double shower heads, and kind size bed. I guess all I need is a single bed and a bathroom down the hall!
But really, all this applying for jobs stuff is really freaking me out. How do you decide what city to live in for what could be the rest of our lives? How do you decide which firm to sacrfice your husband to for what could be the rest of my life? (I guess which ever one agrees to pay you). Going to school wasn't so scary because it was only 3 years and then you could go wherever you want. But, now that we are getting close to finishing and we can go wherever we want...how do we figure out where we want to go? Okay, enough complaining.
